And it becomes worse, and worse…

30 Sep

So the sister revealed another tiny detail of her conversation with Mom before I came out to her… When she expressed to Mom that she had “concerns” about me, and Mom said “What? The gay tendencies?”
Turns out that Mom subsequently asked her, “Is he active?” hopefully not in the sexual sense, but in a manner of actively interacting with the community. To make it worse, the sister just responded with a “I’m sorry, I can’t discuss this with you”!

Though Mom and Dad don’t actively discuss everything in their lives, I’m sure they discuss their kids. So it MIGHT have been shared with Dad. And incidentally, Dad’s coming to visit us for a whole WEEK next week… which means that

a) I have to get SOME action before he gets in and

b) I’m probably going to have to try and avoid some uncomfortable questions. Or be honest with him. What with the night-shifts, it’ll be just the two of us during the afternoons…



5 Responses to “And it becomes worse, and worse…”

  1. abc October 2, 2010 at 7:35 am #

    now that the cat’s out of the bag neway, wht’s wrng in being honest wth him? he sounds like an opn minded guy frm ur earlier posts.

  2. D October 2, 2010 at 10:49 am #

    Come out. Now.

    • abc October 8, 2010 at 10:03 pm #

      naah, this is more fun 🙂

  3. Pesto Sauce October 3, 2010 at 7:56 pm #

    Hope it all works out for you and your guys understand and support

  4. Marvin October 25, 2010 at 9:10 pm #

    It’s never as bad as we think it is, especially with what you have heard.

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