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MISSunderstandings

August 21, 2008 at 10:11 pm | In Hag | 14 Comments
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Having a hag can truly be hard, especially one with so many insecurities.

KT and I weren’t on talking terms for pretty much all of last semester. Reason? She wanted to be closer to me than I felt comfortable with. And that we spent too much time together. It got very claustrophobic and the situation went totally out of hand.

This semester, I took a chance and called a truce with her. Things went very well for most of the part. But to every rule, there is an exception.

Call it irony, but we spend a lot of time talking about me, my life… online. Being gay, one has a lot to write about. Different perspectives, situations… out of the ordinary. Consequently, I do have lots to talk about all the time. Though i’m always more than happy to talk about her life, she doesn’t always have as much to share, with a sober upbringing et all. When she does have something to share, we do talk.
Yet, there were times when she sent an SMS at a late hour, or whilst I was occupied. I was either asleep, or tied down, and couldn’t reply pronto. When I would check my phone later, there would be more smses about how I only liked speaking about myself and never cared to hear her out.

Give the Guy Some Time, I say!

Am I really all that wrong to get downright annoyed? When I do clarify matters with her, she is apologetic and embarrassed. But that on no account is a decentive for repeating the ordeal.

And now I must walk back home with her too… That’s going to be awkward!

Hmph, enough for a Mobile post, I should say.
Boy am I GLAD I’ve kept her in the dark about this Blog.

But all said and done, she’s the best friend I’ve ever had. Loyal, trustworthy, sincere. A darling.
Inspite of everything, I’ll miss her more than hell when we’re eventually apart.

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You’re not wrong – with the late reactions – you’re just unlucky. And I hope she knows what you feel about her as a friend. Because she’d be really unlucky if she didn’t get to know that!

Comment by D — August 21, 2008 #

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No, now that you mention it, I don’t think I have told her in a while.
I shall, though. As soon as this current crisis blows over.

Comment by unsungpsalm — August 21, 2008 #

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Yep, hags are the best!

Comment by Jay — August 21, 2008 #

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You know what, friends deserve honesty. Hence, you can tell her what you feel. If she’s a true friend, she’ll understand and accept you.

Comment by Kris Bass — August 22, 2008 #

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By the way, I think the other template looked better!

Comment by Kris Bass — August 22, 2008 #

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Sheesh!! Straight women.

Comment by Rambunctious WhipperSnapper — August 22, 2008 #

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Come on… it’s natural for her to feel that way. Sometimes when i text sth imp.,i wish for pronto reply. And when i don’t get it, automatically weird thoughts starts running over. May be same happens with her. *just a thought*
So just relax.
And she will understand you someday.

Comment by Dark Knight — August 22, 2008 #

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I think One should not delay telling the things like “I care for you/I love you/ I miss you” …Its tough to tell but then it is worth it !!

Comment by BlueMist — August 22, 2008 #

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*BlueMist
Yep, that’s how it works! One should not delay doing something that makes them uncomfortable!

*DK
And if you don’t get a response, you simply assume the worst?

*Kris
Yep, she pretty much accepts anything about me, and it sometimes makes me uncomfortable. Does she still have any sort of feelings that she once had?
No, it wasn’t better than this! Atleast not as convenient.
Darn, I hate WordPress limitations! I think I’ll actually seek to buy my own domain sometime… What else to do!

*Jay
How many do you have?

Comment by unsungpsalm — August 22, 2008 #

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Yup sometimes i do think abt the worst. Can’t help it i guess.
But i don’t take it for long time

Comment by Dark Knight — August 22, 2008 #

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Phoebe, my hag (shh.. don’t tell her I called her hag.) wants me to have crush on her. You know why? Only then she will be fortunate to fly to US, where she can be together with her bf. So why should I have crush on her? Because IT IS is a well-established fact that every people I fall for gets transferred to foreign lands pretty soon. She always asks me, “C’mon! Not again! Are you sure that you’re not picking out guys who say they’ve got VISA?”

Comment by Crazy Sam — August 22, 2008 #

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@ Unsung: Three! With varying degrees of hag-ness, of course.

Comment by Jay — August 22, 2008 #

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why do people who get tired of wordpress move on to own domain? why not move to blogger?

Comment by flygye12 — August 25, 2008 #

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*FG
Errr… where did that come from?

Comment by unsungpsalm — August 26, 2008 #

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